God said bad company corrupts good morals.

The devil whispered they have no effect on you.

God said that friends will comfort and sympathize with you in times of trouble.

The devil whispered they must be busy, besides these are your problems not theirs.

God said treat others the way you want them to treat you.

The devil whispered, what can they do for you?

Continue reading “Friends”


Dear Stranger

Too often we say ‘Yes’ to things when we should have said ‘No’. In fact, just thinking about saying ‘No’ can leave people feeling uncomfortable, guilty even, that they would rather suffer silently after saying ‘Yes’. Just to be clear, I’m not talking about saying ‘No’ for the sake of saying ‘No’. I’m talking about those moments when you know in your heart you should have said ‘No’ and you spend every moment afterward putting yourself down, feeling trapped in a decision you wish you could take back.

Well I’m here to tell you it’s OK to say ‘No’. Better yet it’s OK to say ‘No’ and not give an reason. And incase you didn’t know, it’s OK to change your mind. Embrace it. Become familiar with it. When you able to say ‘No’, there is no burden in saying ‘Yes’ . 🙏❤️

My Mother, My Love

My mother, my love
How blessed and beautiful you are
A wonderful woman after God’s own heart
No other, not one will ever compare
Faithful and true you have always been
Each scar, well hidden, a testament to your story and love for me

My mother, my love
On my knees I thank God everyday
That it was in your womb we were formed
As your strength and grace shine through
My only wish is to be half as strong as you
But until then thank you is all I can say
My mother, my love
Stay blessed everyday

Sex Sells right?

I have been going round in circles thinking about the best way to approach this topic, but I do know that many may not agree with me. I’m talking about Transactional Relationships. In other words men dating younger girls for some form of payment, which in recent years, has seen an increase in the reverse (for the sake of this post will focus on the former although it applies to both). In fact it has slowly become a widely known open secrete, which has taken on a degree of normalcy. However before I dive in, I must first place all this in context. Continue reading “Sex Sells right?”

Relationshiply Ambiguous

“It does good to no woman to be flattered [by a man] who does not intend to marry her; and it is madness in all women to let a secret love kindle within them, which, if unreturned and unknown, must devour the life that feeds it; and, if discovered and responded to, must lead, ignis-fatuus-like, into miry wilds whence there is no extrication.”

― Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre

Dear Stranger

Social media has made it easy to keep up-to-date with other people’s lives, including the state of  their relationships or lack thereof. In fact, once a relationship comes to an end, we often feel like they are obligated to explain what happened. I mean, who doesn’t need closure? Continue reading “Relationshiply Ambiguous”

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